January 27, 2023

Twelve and thriving

12th birthday

Portia just had a birthday.  I've been documenting her for 12 years.  That means for 12 years I've watched her grow into the most amazing human girl.  And yet, there's so much I still need to tell her.  Teach her.  Show her.

But before I forget, she left me this note this morning to find while she was at school.  Talk about killing you with kindness.

love notes

So, yeah, she turned 12.

color me mine

She had a joyful weekend...

unicorn floatie

With endless sweet-tooth treats.

munchies l.a.

We were covered in red.  Red like red lips.  Red like red velvet cake.  And red like Taylor Swift's Red album (Taylor's version).

blank space cake

She's kind of a big dill.  I mean deal.

dill pickle socks

Her brothers would disagree.  They're jealous because she won't be joining their metal mouth club anytime soon. 

corn teeth

Dr. Harmer continually says she has "every dentist's dream mouth".

dentist

I mean look at that bite!

yellow watermelon

Portia is an expert in dealing with sibling rivalry.  She's club president of How To Tolerate Your Annoying Brothers. 

1st day of school

One way is to pretend you like sports.

lakers mural

Then create a sister cheer section to show fake support. 

bleachers 

On her birthday, she probably wished for two things, one, for her brothers to be dropped in the deep abyss.

blank space cake

 And two, for August 5 (Taylor Swift's The Eras Tour) to hurry up and come quickly.  

1989

She LOOOOOOVES Tay Tay. The end.

blank space cake

Well, there's more to her than just being a Swiftie.

taylor swift

Portia is still a slime enthusiast and a boba-rista.

homemade boba drink

She's a mochi making aerial dancer.

homemade mochi

She's become an ultimate white sneaker wearing valley girl...

burgers and fries

Who loves going shopping at the mall...

westfield topanga

Making plans to get boba or starbucks...

strawberry frapp

And then debate which Taylor Swift album will be the next Taylors Version. 

taylor swift

Even though she disguises herself in my glasses.

glasses

David's glasses.

glasses

Or glow-n-the-dark glasses, she never pretends to be someone she's not.  

glasses

She's my BEST sous chef.

chicken taquitos

Dylan's BEST cousin.

birthday balloon

And Sunny's BEST friend.

matcha boba

She's that friend you can spill your problems to over a big bowl of gluten. 

lure house

And then share a reset day by indulging in a green meal.

din tai fung

She still loves taking photos with me.

mommy and me

No so much of me taking photos of her.

curlers

Perhaps she'll be a professional photographer.  

say cheese

And I can be her muse.   

mommy muse

We're going to start taking girls trips together where only sandals are allowed.

kobe bryant mural

  Some place where a beach chair is calling our names.  And boys can't come!

islands

I'd be so lucky if I could become her big-me one day.  

mommy and me

And then she'll know how much I absolutely adore her to death.

portia

I love you now and always until the end of time.